Circle of Security Parenting Approach

Online

A 7 week online programme that helps you understand what your child really needs, and feel confident giving it to them.

Circle of Security Parenting (COSP) is one of the most respected parenting programmes in the world. It’s based on decades of research into how children develop and what they actually need from the adults who love them most.

It’s not about techniques or tricks. It’s about understanding your child’s emotional world, recognising what they’re asking for, and learning how to respond in a way that builds real security.

When children feel secure, everything gets easier. Sleep. Behaviour. Connection. All of it.

COSP has been used with hundreds of thousands of families globally. I’ve completed the programme myself, and it’s one of the most powerful things I’ve ever experienced as both a parent and an early childhood professional.

What You’ll Learn

Over 7 weeks, you’ll explore:

  • The Circle of Security: a simple but powerful map of your child’s emotional needs
  • What your child is communicating through their behaviour (even when it’s hard to read)
  • How your own history shapes the way you parent, and how to work with that, not against it
  • How to stay regulated when your child is dysregulated
  • What “being a secure base” really means, and how to be one, even on the hard days
  • Practical tools for building connection, managing big emotions, and responding with confidence
  • Each session includes video content, guided reflection, and group discussion in a warm, supportive space.

This programme is for you if:

  • You have a child aged between 4 months – 10 years old
  • You have a child and want to understand them better
  • You feel like you’re doing everything “right” but something still feels off
  • Your child’s behaviour is challenging and you’re not sure how to respond
  • You want a stronger connection with your child but aren’t sure how to build it
  • You’re navigating big feelings (yours or theirs) and could use some support
  • You want to break patterns from your own childhood that keep showing up in your parenting

Next Intake Details

Format: Online via Google Meet. Live, interactive sessions with a small group.
Sessions: 7 sessions total
Date: Beginning Tuesday 4th August 2026
Time: 7:45pm – 9:15pm NZT
Investment: $299 per screen (up to 2 adults per household, partners welcome at no extra cost)
Group size: Small and intentional

Sessions are hosted live by me, Alex Weehuizen: qualified early childhood educator, early years specialist, and accredited COSP facilitator.

FAQ

Can my partner join?

Yes! The $299 investment covers your whole household screen. Both of you are warmly welcome to attend together.

Do I need to have done anything like this before? join?

Not at all. COSP is designed for all parents, whether you’re brand new to reflective parenting or you’ve been exploring it for years. You’ll get something valuable wherever you’re starting from.

What if I miss a session?

Life with little ones is unpredictable. I get it. I am unable to record any of the session due to licensing and the privacy of participants. Please reach out if you miss a session and we’ll work something out.

Is this therapy?

No. COSP is a parenting education programme, not therapy. That said, it is reflective and can bring up personal insights. It’s a safe, supported space and I’m trained to hold that well.

My child is older than 5, is this still relevant?

COSP is most relevant for parents of children aged 0 to 11, but the principles apply well beyond that. If you’re not sure whether it’s the right fit, send me a message and we can chat.

What if I want more personalised support?

The group programme is a brilliant foundation. If you’d like one-on-one support alongside or after COSP (for sleep, behaviour, or anything else) I offer individual mentoring sessions too.